Relax, nothing is in control. Situations outside of you are not in your control so relax and accept life for the way it unfolds for you. Check out the post “Secret to Happiness” where I go over this in more detail.
In short, just because things are not under your control and not doing what you would like it to do does not mean anything. The way life unfolds is the Universe’s plan, not yours and it may make your life turn out better this way.